What to Expect on Your First Christmas as a Foster Carer

What to Expect on Your First Christmas as a Foster Carer

Christmas can be a magical time filled with joy and laughter. However, for new foster carers, it may also bring a unique set of challenges and emotions as you navigate this holiday season with children and young people who may be adjusting to their new environment. At Calon Cymru Fostering, we understand that your first Christmas as a foster carer can be both exciting and daunting. Here’s what to expect and how to make the day special for everyone involved.

Understand Different Perspectives

Every child and young person in foster care has their own experiences and feelings about the holidays. Some may feel excitement and joy, while others might experience anxiety or sadness. Be prepared for a range of emotions, and approach each child's feelings with sensitivity.

Christmas can be a triggering time for anyone, some children and young people may be spending their first Christmas in foster care, whereas others could’ve had several Christmas’ away from their birth families, but dread this period every year. Having open conversations can help foster children express their thoughts and understand that it’s okay to feel both happy and sad during this time.

Create a Warm Environment Together

Decorating together can be a fun way to bond with your foster children. Consider involving them in hanging ornaments or stringing lights, giving them a sense of ownership and participation in the festivities. Remember, some children and young people may come from backgrounds where Christmas was not celebrated, so it’s essential to explain the meaning of the holiday in a way they can understand.

Establish New Traditions

Starting new traditions can create a sense of belonging and stability for the children and young people in your care. This could be as simple as making a special Christmas breakfast, watching a favourite Christmas film, or picking a decoration for the tree together.

Remember, We Are Here If You Need Us

It's not uncommon for children and young people to display challenging behaviours across the Christmas period, especially if they are struggling to adjust. Understand that emotional reactions may be heightened and be patient as they navigate their feelings. Having a plan in place for how to manage these behaviours can help you maintain a calm and festive atmosphere.

As a Calon Cymru foster carer, you are never alone. We provide ongoing support to all our foster carers and are still available 24 hours a day. If you feel overwhelmed or need someone to talk to, don’t hesitate to call your local duty team.

Your first Christmas as a foster carer can be a rewarding experience filled with opportunities to create lasting memories. Embrace the season with an open heart, we wish you an enjoyable holiday season with all your loved ones.